Everything You Need. All in one place.

Your complete guide to sharing Pathfinder with confidence. Every stream, every link, ready-made posts and honest answers to the questions you will be asked.

Step One

Your Torchbearer link.

Your personal link is in your affiliate dashboard. Log in with your PATHFINDER email and password, copy your link, then use the stream links and ready-made posts below. Every registration that comes through your link is tracked to you automatically for 90 days from the first click.

Open Your Affiliate Dashboard

For one-to-one sharing, use your personalised coupon code instead. This survives device switches and browser changes, so you get the credit even if someone clicks on their phone and buys on their laptop.

Step Two

The right door for the right person.

The most effective referral is a specific one. Send each person to the stream that matches their situation and they will recognise themselves immediately. These are all the Pathfinder streams with their direct links.

Trauma & Its Aftermath

Survivors of Abuse For those carrying something that should never have happened to them.
Healing from Sexual Abuse A dedicated, safe stream. Nobody is pushed faster than they are ready to move.
Recognising Abuse, Reclaiming Yourself and Finding Safe Ground For those who sense something is wrong but cannot name it yet.
Boundaries, Self-Protection & Personal Sovereignty For those still in proximity to a difficult or dangerous person who need practical tools now.
Managing a Corrupt & Abusive System For those navigating institutions or systems that have failed them or actively caused harm.
Veterans & PTSD For those whose service left wounds the standard system has not been able to reach.

Life Under Pressure

Burnout, Exhaustion and the Body That Has Had Enough For those who kept going long after they should have stopped and now have nothing left to give.
The Things We Do to Cope - Addiction and Compulsive Soothing For those using something to manage pain that has nowhere else to go.
Grief, Loss and Learning to Live With What Cannot Be Undone For those carrying a loss that society doesn't always make space for.
When Food Becomes Complicated - Healing Your Relationship With Eating For those whose relationship with food has become controlling, fearful, or a source of shame.
Feeling Trapped or Living the Wrong Life For those who can see no way out of their current situation and need clarity to take the next step.
Wired Differently For those with ADHD, autism, or neurodivergent traits who have spent a lifetime feeling out of step.
Depression For those living with the flatness, the disconnection, the sense of watching life from outside of it.
Anxiety For those whose nervous system has been on high alert so long it has forgotten what calm feels like.

Body Under Strain

Nervous System Regulation For those who need to understand what is happening in their body and how to begin feeling safe again.
Chronic Pain and Persistent Physical Symptoms For those living with pain that has not responded to conventional treatment.
Chronic Fatigue, ME and Post-Infectious Illness For those with ME, CFS, long COVID, or exhaustion the body cannot restore through rest alone.
Autoimmune and Inflammatory Conditions For those dealing with the body turning against itself and wanting to understand the full picture.
Gut Health, Food Sensitivities and Unexplained Symptoms For those with IBS, digestive disorders, or conditions rooted in the gut-brain-nervous system connection.
Diabetes and Metabolic Dysfunction For those managing metabolic conditions who want to understand the emotional dimensions too.
Tinnitus, Vertigo and Sensory Disturbance For those living with conditions that are invisible to others but relentless for them.
Self Directed Cancer Journey For those navigating a diagnosis and the fear, treatment, and deeper questions it brings.
When Medicine Failed You For those with complex health consequences who feel unheard by the system.
Healthy Mind Healthy Body For those who need to rebuild the physical foundations that make healing possible.

Relationships & Family

Relationships For those caught in patterns that keep repeating across relationships.
Couples For two people where something has shifted and they want to understand why.
Separation, Divorce and Rebuilding When the Family Changes For those navigating the end of a relationship and the life that went with it.
High Conflict Divorce For those where the relationship ended but the chaos didn't.
Parental Alienation For parents whose children are being used against them.
Parenting Alone For those raising children alone whilst rebuilding themselves.
Loving Someone in Crisis - How to Support Without Breaking For those who love someone who is struggling and want to help without losing themselves.
Fertility, Conception and the Emotional Weight of Trying For those navigating infertility, IVF, pregnancy loss, or the long road of trying to conceive.
Sexual Confidence, Intimacy and Reconnecting With Your Body For those whose relationship with intimacy or their own body has been damaged by trauma or shame.
Nurturing Your Inner Child and Healing the Patterns That Followed For those who sense that an earlier wound is still shaping how they live today.

Identity & Growth

Personal Development For those who are not in crisis but know they are not yet who they are capable of becoming.
Divine Feminine For women reclaiming wholeness and understanding generational patterns.
Divine Masculine For men who want strength that is present and emotionally honest.
Awakening Warriors For those asking the questions the mainstream doesn't have answers for.

Step Three

Ready-made posts and messages.

You do not need to create content from scratch. These posts and messages are written and ready to share. Copy them as they are or adapt them to your own voice. The most effective referrals are the ones that sound like you.

For Social Media

General - The feeling something is wrong
"If you have ever left a relationship, a job, or a situation and wondered why you still don't feel okay, this is worth looking at. pathfinderthewayout.com"
General - You are not the problem
"Something I wish I had found sooner. If you have been told the problem is you, it probably isn't. pathfinderthewayout.com"
General - For those who have tried everything
"If you have done the therapy, read the books, tried the courses, and still feel stuck - this is built for that exact place. pathfinderthewayout.com"
Narcissistic Abuse
"If you are trying to make sense of what happened in a relationship that left you questioning your own reality, there is a stream built specifically for this. pathfinderthewayout.com/survivors-of-abuse"
Recognising Abuse
"Sometimes the hardest part is not recovering from what happened. It is recognising that what happened was not okay. This stream is for that moment. pathfinderthewayout.com/recognising_abuse"
Burnout
"If you are running on empty and still expected to show up, you are not lazy. You are depleted. There is a difference - and there is a way through. pathfinderthewayout.com/burnout-exhaustion"
Anxiety
"Anxiety is not just worry. It is a nervous system that has been on high alert for so long it doesn't know how to come down. This stream gets into why - and what to do about it. pathfinderthewayout.com/anxiety"
Depression
"Not sadness. The flatness. The disconnection. Watching your life from somewhere slightly outside of it. If that resonates, this was built for you. pathfinderthewayout.com/depression"
Grief
"Grief is not only losing a person. It is losing a relationship, an identity, a version of the future you thought you were living in. If you are carrying that kind of loss, there is a stream for it. pathfinderthewayout.com/grief_loss"
Chronic health and the body
"The connection between what the body is holding and what the mind hasn't yet processed is real. If you have conditions the doctors can't fully explain, this might matter to you. pathfinderthewayout.com/nervous-system-regulation"
Wired Differently
"If you have spent your whole life being told you are too much, too intense, or too different - you might not be broken. You might just be wired differently. pathfinderthewayout.com/wired-differently"
Separation and Divorce
"The hardest part of separation isn't always the person you lost. Sometimes it is the version of yourself you lost along with them. pathfinderthewayout.com/separation-divorce"
High Conflict Divorce
"For anyone going through a divorce that doesn't seem to end even after the relationship did. There is a stream that understands the specific terrain. pathfinderthewayout.com/high-conflict-divorce"
Parental Alienation
"If you are a parent being kept from your children, or watching them be used against you, you are not alone. And you are not the monster you are being painted as. pathfinderthewayout.com/parental-alienation"
Supporting Someone
"This one is for the people standing beside someone who is struggling. Because caring for someone whilst carrying your own weight takes its own kind of courage. pathfinderthewayout.com/supporting-someone"
Feeling Trapped
"Feeling trapped is not weakness. Sometimes it takes enormous strength just to keep going in a situation that is wrong for you. This stream is for when you are ready to look at what comes next. pathfinderthewayout.com/feeling_trapped"

For One-to-One Messages

When someone is going through something difficult
"I found something a while back that really helped me make sense of what I was going through. I think it might speak to you. Have a look when you have a quiet moment. [stream URL]"
When someone asks how you are doing better
"Honestly, I found a course that helped me understand what was actually happening. It is not like anything I had tried before. Here is the link if you want to take a look. [stream URL]"
When someone mentions they are stuck
"There is a free discovery section you can access without any commitment. Just register and have a look around. It might be exactly what you need, or it might not be the right time. Either is fine. [stream URL]"
When someone has been unwell for a long time
"I know you've been through a lot with your health. I came across something that looks at the whole picture, not just the physical side. Not sure if it's the right fit but I thought of you. [stream URL]"
When someone shares they've been through abuse
"I didn't want to just say 'I'm sorry' and leave it there. I found this a while back and it really helped me understand what had happened to me. It might speak to you too. [stream URL]"
When someone says they are exhausted and rest isn't helping
"That kind of exhaustion - where rest doesn't actually restore you - is worth paying attention to. I found something that explains it better than anything I've come across. Have a look when you can. [stream URL]"
When someone is going through a difficult divorce or separation
"I've been thinking about you. This isn't a fix and I know that. But I found something that at least understands what this specific kind of situation actually feels like. Might be worth a quiet look. [stream URL]"
When someone seems really low
"I don't want to push anything on you. But I found something that I think sees people in the way you deserve to be seen. Have a look at the free section when you're ready. There's no pressure. [stream URL]"
When someone says something feels wrong but they can't name it
"That feeling - knowing something is off but not being able to put words to it - is actually exactly where this is built for. You don't need a diagnosis or a label. Just a sense that something needs to change. [stream URL]"
When someone pushes back or says it's not for them
"Completely fine, no pressure at all. Level 0 is free to access if you ever want to have a quiet look without committing to anything. It'll still be there. [stream URL]"

How It Works

Your commission, clearly explained.

25% of every level they buy For every person who buys a Pathfinder level through your unique link or coupon code, you receive 25% of what they pay. This applies to each further level they buy using your link or code, not just the first.
Tracked automatically for 90 days Your share link carries a 90-day tracking window. If someone clicks your link today and joins within 90 days on the same browser, the commission is yours. Use your coupon code for one-to-one sharing to ensure tracking survives device switches.
Paid through Kajabi Commissions are tracked through the Kajabi affiliate system. Your dashboard shows your referrals, pending commissions, and payment history in real time. Payouts are made manually by Pathfinder on a regular schedule.
Your commission can cover your own journey If your referrals generate enough commission to cover the levels you buy yourself, your own journey through Pathfinder can cost you little or nothing.
No upper limit There is no cap on earnings. The more people you help find the right door, the more your commission grows.

What People Ask

Questions you might be asked.

When you share Pathfinder, people will sometimes have questions. Here are the most common ones and how to answer them honestly.

What actually is Pathfinder?

It is a structured self-paced course and community built around the Hawkins Scale of Consciousness. It helps people carrying unresolved trauma, a dysregulated nervous system, or simply a sense that something needs to change. It is built around 23 specialist streams so people can follow the path that fits their specific situation. It is not therapy. It is a map, built by someone who has walked every step of it himself.

Is it just another therapy course?

No. It is built by someone who tried four psychologists and found them inadequate for what he was dealing with. It draws on psychology, neuroscience, nutrition, spirituality, philosophy and lived experience. It is structured as a journey, not a collection of videos.

How much does it cost?

Each level is €145. As a Torchbearer referral they pay €130.50, a 10% discount. They can access Level 0 Discovery for free before committing to anything.

Do they have to commit straight away?

No. Level 0 Discovery is free to access with just an email registration. They can explore the material, get comfortable with the platform, and decide when they are ready.

Are you being paid to recommend this?

Yes, as a Torchbearer you receive a commission on referrals. Be honest about this if asked. The commission does not change whether Pathfinder is the right fit for them, and the free Level 0 access means there is no financial risk in taking a look.

You do not need to reach hundreds of people. You need one.

Think of one person whose life this could change. Find the stream that fits them. Send them the link.

The torch does not need to be thrown. It just needs to be carried.

Questions about the Torchbearer programme? [email protected]