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Survivors of Abuse

Normal people don't abuse. This is the realm of the Cluster B personality disordered individual, whose treatment of others can become a deeply traumatic head game. Pathfinder resolves that trauma.

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Normal People Don't Abuse

Normal people don't abuse others. That's the domain of the Cluster B: the narcissist, the psychopath, the sociopath. So whether it was an abusive intimate relationship, a high-conflict divorce, abandonment or neglect as an infant, incest, rape or sexual abuse at the hands of a predator, financial abuse or fraud, or psychological abuse by a professional you trusted (a therapist, lawyer, doctor or carer), the chances are you were dealing with a Cluster B personality disordered individual. And statistically, there are plenty of them about.

The Head Games

So opposite to what we expect from another human being.

Dr Jekyll The Mask

The charming half of their personality looks human, warm and utterly convincing. It's the face they show the world, and the face that drew you in. It is not the one that does the damage.

Mr Hyde The Harm

The toxic alter ego is the one who does the damage, destroying the mental health of an unwitting victim with a degree of insidious manipulation that makes no sense, precisely because it is so far from anything you would expect of another human being.

When we apply normal emotions, logic, values and behaviours to a Cluster B, we only screw ourselves up further. They don't play by the rules you were raised on. Understanding that is the first step out.
From Prey to Predator, If Required

I'll show you that your adversary is far weaker than you think.

Throughout Pathfinder, we decode the deeply counter-intuitive mindset of the Cluster B. I'll explain what motivates them to do what they do, account for their missing moral compass and their lack of normal-range emotions, manage your expectations for the genuine apology or remorse that will never come, and help you detach from their grip. And should the time come to turn the tables, I'll guide you to find their Achilles heel, discover your own superpowers, and learn how to use them.

When I went through my own experience, I described it as being in a boxing ring with Mike Tyson, blindfolded, with my hands tied behind my back. Pathfinder removes the blindfold and cuts the ties, and shows you that your adversary is in fact much weaker than you would ever imagine.

A Complete Healing Journey

Turn the worst thing that happened to you into a force for good.

Follow trauma resolution with personal development, then a spiritual journey, and Pathfinder helps you turn this awful experience into something that serves you. You'll discover your true soul purpose, the fire in which your real character was forged. And you'll learn how to protect yourself from the toxic personalities who would seek to abuse you, or otherwise derail you from the joy, success and abundance you so richly deserve.

Other Streams

Don't stop at one stream.

You may be focused first on making sense of narcissistic abuse and resolving the trauma it left behind. Even so, I'd urge you to visit the other streams too. Prolonged exposure to this kind of experience, or staying trapped in the trauma that follows it, can give rise to chronic health conditions that aren't obvious yet but may be developing within. The Chronic Health Conditions stream shows you how to head them off, or ease them if they do surface. And the Personal Development and Relationships stream helps you move towards your Higher Self, the best version of you, far faster than you'd manage alone.

Helping Others

Recruit four others, and your path to freedom is free.

No-one should live a life blighted by abuse. Do you know someone who'd benefit from Pathfinder? If you do, I'd be grateful for your help spreading the word, and helping more people resolve their trauma. Recruit four other members and your own path to freedom, joy and abundance is free.

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